I mean if he was willing to help you out than why not?! Why make yourself miserable over a situation that isn't likely to change after 27 years? Most of my day is spent locked up in my room reading the boring books that my sister has. He hates me less, but hates none the less. She's overweight) and people think she's just jealous. and severe depression. She used to beat me and my little sister and i couldnt call the police because she took away my phone. tl;dr: My incredibly intense sister, who I love very much, wants to spend 17 days for the Christmas holidays with me and my husband. (Sister) I Dont Hate You I Just Really Dislike You She Wont Say Why She Doesnt Like Me Is That Normal But all I wanted was her to love me. when my daughter was two things came to blows and me and my sister argued and she said "why should you get more money than I did when my kids were young?". But lately she has been treating me like your average bully. She has always had trouble with girls in middle school & high school and maintaining good friendships. I really want to die to. But when I do something cool, she shows no interest in it what so ever. purple. when I was four she was dancing at the top of our attick stairs and would not let me past after me asking her to move out of the way she pretended not to hear me so I tried to squeeze past and evidently I fell down the stairs! I get that. My sister, who I believe is a narcissist, DOES have feelings and concerns that are genuine, yes, but they only revolve around topics that are meaningful to her, i.e. I'm not like that so its hard for me to deal with this :(, i have the same exact sister, well i should say i had that sister, she is jealous, and my sister finally admitted it to me a few years ago, we sound alike i'm very outgoing, and get along well with others,i just came to her one day and asked her do you hate me she admitted that she was jealous of me, but now things are so different, we cool, i let her know, you my sister and i love you,i don't think less of you no matter what, and i'm the youngest..she not selfish she is so jealous, i do have a selfish sister, she selfish, jealous and cold hearted, i stay all the way out her face, there is no hope for this sister...she old and stuck in her ways, just talk to your sister give it a try if she don't want to open up, love her anyway that's your sister, but love her from a distance and there is nothing wrong with it...good luck. He's 21 and I'm 15. Like she gets mad if i even eat and if i dont agree with her for something that doesnt matter. green. Is it ok tell my mum like mind your own business and let me do it when she tells me off for smoking? Shee even had a college graduation party that I only found out about a year ago. blue. Why does my older brother hate me? Nothing is ever good enough! I have forgiven her for everything that she ever did to me so why she is trying to destroy my life. If your respective children are friends, it might be difficult that way, but since your sister has made it clear she doesn't want to get along with you, then back away. she had a little girl when I was 6 and a boy 3 years later when I was about 11 I started looking after my niece and if she did anything wrong like purposely pour water all over their new carpet it was my fault that the carpet would be ruined for not cleaning it up properly! Every time he comes home from college it's like our family is a chore to him. And I recognise simply the right way to do it. My brother and his wife joined us on the last night with their other little girl that was months old and my sister had said to my brother that she was annoyed that i had not done anything on my own with my daughter and had been with them all the time - i don't like being on my own with my daughter in unfamiliar places and why would we go on holiday with family to spend time on our own? I dont know what she thinks of me other than being better and ore mature with us. Is Pearl L. still in prison in New Mexico? I just can’t do it anymore. I know that me and other sisters have done nothing wrong to our older sister.The resentment from her still, is palpable. She makes me feel like my life is insignificant. I'm I'm the youngest sibling I have two my brother and my sister and I feel like my sister hates me all I want is for her to like me it it doesn't work she said she was sorry once and kept doing it she would hit me kick me and tell at me until I cry I would cry myself to sleep when we would fight. As you'll be able to see, she and I are each adults, however not anything feels any distinct from the older days while she and I have been youngsters. I really don't know why she would act like that to you. She is 11 and I would never do that. they made us feel so unwelcome! She always treated me as a I can't figure out why my sister hates me (children, wedding, divorced) - Non-Romantic Relationships -Issues with friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances - Page 3 - City-Data Forum Nothing we do or say is good enough or respected. I have a sister who is 3 years older than me and she acts like she hates me. Thank you for your constant support and engagement! First of all, your kid is obviously young. So he sees me everyday while I am on my computer. Sometimes, it's because they are simply young, and plenty of sisters who grew bigger grow out of it. I'm sure she'll come around sooner or later. She has gotten to do some cool things w/ her boyfriend like travel to different states and countries and I have always shown her support and interest. She calls me a *****, comes into my room without knocking, reads my emails and messages, messes up all my clothes and ruins my things, she also hits me and each time I wear some makeup or change my style a little bit, she calls me a show off. Everyone in my family hates me. He says he hates her. When I visit her, I help out a lot with her five year old by dressing her, feeding her, tidying her room, etc. She still will barely talk to us and be kind to me as of today being a 38 yr old women. She's happy with her boyfriend, they live together (been together 10 yrs but aren't married) and she has a good job. It wasn't even a big deal. She always has an attitude with me too. by: Anonymous From the time I was born by brother has treated my like a lesser human. other « » Log in or sign up. they left me and my daughter in the swimming baths and did not tell me that they were leaving, not one of them. My sister hits me and y mom does not even care. She is five years older and we have a brother who is two years older than her, so she's a middle child but at the same time, not really? There's a personal reason why I created this quiz. she also argued with my dad about some money that he gave me and my daughter for christmas for winter coats and footwear, being a single mum and a student money is tight so my dad helped me out by doing that and I was very grateful for it. Our whole lefe she has never been nice or loving towards us. She has never asked or listened to me. Okay My Sister Hates Me, Im 15 (im a guy) And Shes 16 I Dont Even Know What Caused Her To Hate Me. I'm 36 and she's 38. If you disagree with her be prepared for her to hit below the belt or use her children as a punishment to us. She doesn't rip at my brother even though she does argue with him. I know before us three came along she got all the attention and anything she wanted. That's just what I do if I were in your shoes. Honestly, I hate life. She belittles me in her feedback with out even figuring out that she is doing improper. So, I'll repeat it: My sister hates me from a place so deep and dark that no one, not even Freud or Jung, could reach it over two lifetimes of psychotherapy. I know, that instinctive reaction was mean, nasty and irrational. How do I get my parents to let me go out with my friends to restaurants. In the mean time, just stay away from her. She has threatened this to my parents before. How to get my parents to see I'm sorry so they can unground me? the whole thing with the party... well, for one, how old is this brother of her bf's and was there alcohol at the party? My mom wanted to spend more time with her, whereas I always got on her nerves and she would say things like, “When you’re here, Kathy, it’s like there are 10 extra people around.” Umm….yeah. She someway continually manages to get to my property it doesn't matter what obstacles I throw as much as hold her from doing so. I'm hurt by her because I have ALWAYS been happy for her & supportive of her. I have no idea why my older sister hates me. Iâm 26 nowÂ ? That was 11 yrs ago. But it turns out she was being too protective and she didn't hate me … My sister also asked me to pay her Â£200 for the break but it would not have cost her any extra for me and my daughter to go! My sister says I can't make my issues with ADHD everyone else's problem. And also, thats his kid, does your sister expect him to just sit back and let his daughter struggle with buying stuff she NEEDS for her and her kid? You might just need to avoid contact with her since that appears to be the way she wants it. I need some advice please because my so called mom hates my fiance just because she cant have kids? I am a triplet. Little kids can be a handful. But if i even something from her i will get hit. my 11 yr old son hates his 10 yr old sister. This is quite a predicament you have... well, while your older sister has problems, i'm positive she doesn't hate you. I would just like to know what I've done wrong for her to treat me and my daughter this way, as I've done nothing wrong!!! She is polite and nice to everyone else but when comes to us...cold as ice.. We just had a reunion..she was the host.we all worked really hard but she said she is made at her three sisters and I dont know what we did. Ok so me and my sister always have been pretty close together. Biden certification in Congress likely to be contentious, Jennifer Lopez grieves for COVID-19 victims, 'Patriotic Millionaires' want to kick in on relief checks, Cheers! I'm 27 and my older sister is 40 and there has always been friction between us. The best answer I can give is to move on with life. Get answers by asking now. And thats stupid how she got mad at you for asking for some money from your dad! I'm also the smaller one (in size. I have a sister who is 3 years older than me and she acts like she hates me. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. Another reason why your sister can be mean or it seems like your sister hates you is because she feels jealous. He claims all his anger is because she torments him and we (as parents) don't do anything about it. So The Other Night I Asked Her :- (Me) Why Do U Hate Me ? So yeah, he is in the same room with me for at least 5 hours to 12 hours everyday since I have had him. She stormed out of my home and as she left, told my 14year old she was sorry she had to live with such a crazy liar like me. My parents just say thats the way she is but I am opinated woman which took 35 years by the way to get any kind of confidence. I know it hurts but sometimes things like this happen in life. Please help, I don't know what to do. Jealousy. She said if I ever mention again that I want to visit her, she will stop communicating with me. She also will not invite me to her home, in fact I am not allowed to bring it up. when I was 21 I had a child of my own and my sister was taking me to look at houses that she had found and was trying to make me buy houses (my little flat would not have been big enough for me and the baby!) They grow out of it. Sowie to ask dis but wut yo fave color??? My dad and sister always side against me. My sister hates me. It's always been like this since we were little. You can sign in to vote the answer. My dad apologized and left. We are 7 years younger then my older sister. So, she called me and said, "Are you going to pay for Brianna's halloween costume this year?" My sister is always in need of money. While I was given chores to do, my sister watched cartoons and stuck her tongue out at me. I've been identifying what to do, and I consider I'm going to do it. Don't give up with your sister, because she'll come around again... and if you have arguments, just remember, women are always the hardest to deal with, and think their right most of the time. When I asked why I wasn't invited and why her boyfriend's brother was, she said because he and his brother are close. my sister took my brother's daughter to a build a bear workshop and said that my brother had asked them to take her as there was no room to go on a teddy bears picnic, to which my brother had no knowledge of. I think she needs to get over it. I don’t give two shts about what my sister does, but I wanted my niece to be able to call me whenever just to escape. He is an angry, mean spirited child at home - but an entirely different kid when he is at school or with friends. We still don't. Why does she hate me so much ? I really dont know her but that is not without trying.I think pretty much the same for the other two triplets. this upset me and my dad and confused my uncle! She still gets everything she wants today but still acts unkind towards us. Just considering that she married into the whole thing she wanted and obtained higher breaks in existence, she continually rubs my face in it and talks as regardless that each and every misfortune or improper that's performed to me is continually my fault and that no person who has ever screwed me over has ever been improper approximately doing so. Is Pearl L. still in prison in New Mexico? Why would my aunt and her girlfriend keep trying to say that I was lying about an older man raping me when I was 15 years old ? Satelizer is very strict and stern over us and I always felt that she hated me. She lives in Texas and I live in Ohio. My sister messaged me and started abusing me saying that I was putting things in her daughters head and btching about my sister to her own daughter, which was absolutely not the case. I know where that comes from but where does she come from? All of you in this web publication sheet shouldn't have any disorders in any respect in comparison to mine. She has lots of friends her whole life and treats all so much better than us. She knows nothing about me, nothing. Why does my older sister hate me? My older sister takes control over me, and whatever talent I find that I can do, she desperately tries to do the same. It was very hurtful as a child and really affected us all. I have not done anything wrong to her. I'm so sorry, that sounds awful! One time they went on a trip and I told my mom (I was young) and my sister has never forgiven me for that. His sister is a happy go lucky kind of kid both at home and away. She doesn't cheer you on. You have your whole life to live and you have a beautiful daughter of your own. she recently accused me of taking money from my uncle that was visiting from ireland when he physically put the money in my purse towards a meal we were having, he also tried to give her some money but she refused and later he admitted to my dad that this upset him, he also stayed at my house for the duration of his stay and when he visited my sisters house she said "shall i show you round, you can see the room you will be staying in next time you visit!" she always puts me down and never supports me in anything I do, anything I do is never good enough and by the end of the break to center parcs I'd had enough and said a few strong words at my brothers birthday bbq which was the day after we returned and we have not spoken properly since, although I have tried, but after recent events I don't think I will try again with her and it would not bother me if I never saw her again! my brother still doesn't talk to me much... but he does love me, which is a given with him. perhaps she's in that stage when she feels she shouldn't have as many past connections to the immediate family my own older brother went through when i was still in high school. 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