I am positive and optimistic, but I am not perfect. You inspire me. xoxo No. I’m really trying to focus on #2 – focus on the positive – but it’s so hard! The one thing I loved so much about making 'Pitch Perfect 2' - especially in comparison to a movie like 'Ten Thousand Saints' - is you can go and be yourself, and you just know that all your weirdness and craziness and imperfections are completely embraced and accepted. Thank you! I've just grown asperson, accepting my flaws . I have the biggest dreams and plans for my business but often do not follow through because I fear I will fail. Your email address will not be published. xoxo, Rachel | http://www.theconfusedmillennial.com, This post is so raw and real. And you know what… Let’s both keep smiling! That’s what makes you different from others. I’m hoping that you can give me the opportunity to be part of your university. Lots of love! You might not like the fat that sits on your sides, but it actually serves a purpose. Loved this post! I hope you know you are not alone! It fueled my early achievements and future goals for myself in such a way that I took pride in my work and found fulfillment in how others perceived me. With far too many to count, I am sharing 30 gut-wrenching struggles and imperfections that were hard to type (and especially hit post!). Now you go out and meet 5 people 1st person - didn’t like it - because he don’t like red color 2nd - didn’t like it because she likes pink. Human beings are remarkably adept at ignoring their own flaws and foibles, even when doing so leaves them miserable. You should be so proud of yourself for sharing such a vulnerable part of yourself. You can also find me on Pinterest to see things that “pin-spire” me, Twitter to learn more about what makes me smile, Facebook, because let’s face it I’m on there too much, and of course, Instagram, which is basically my favorite place to hang out with you all! You have such a great online presence and I know alot of people out there are thanking you for showing that even the most brightest people have insecurities. My quest for perfection led to a fear of failure, a fear of disapproval by others, and ultimately doomed me to living with an anxiety disorder. Thank you! And I like your refreshing viewpoint about embracing our imperfections and accepting ourselves so others may also accept us. Stop thinking you’re the problem. I take about 200 photos for a photo-shoot and only use about 10 of them. © 2020 STYLE MISS MOLLY | All Rights Reserved |. These are some really great thoughts. Do we share any insecurities? Kenzie At some point along my journey, I let this unrelenting desire to be perfect begin to control my thoughts, desires, and actions. I feel like we are definitely kindred spirits. And again, THANK YOU! Thank you for cheering me up when I’m down and lonely and when i feel nobody is there. Embrace them, don’t feel embarrassed. I find that having a smile on your face at all times helps others see you for you, rather than focusing on your flaws. What If Social Media Numbers Didn’t Exist? You looked in mirror - you felt its looking good and you’re happy. Remember that it’s something you have and not something you are, and we’ll all get through it together! I live in Seattle and am an optimist, adventurer, and bold lipstick wearer. I'm not perfect, but I'm thankful for my imperfections. Thank you and Godbless. To quote Corey Matthews on Girl Meets World “people need people” and I am so happy our paths have crossed! I can relate to so much of everything you wrote. Hi Aileen, I’m so happy this post helped you. Sending you lots of hugs, Kait Molly, I feel like you wrote that list for me. I’m a huge perfectionist and just like you I actually go to therapy for that. I relate to almost every one of these. I start and stop many projects without ever finishing them. Your flaws are your identity. Embrace Imperfection Anonymous. Sure, fix and strengthen and better yourself, but quit blaming. To continue supporting me and get all the latest style tips and life inspiration sent to your inbox, subscribe to my blog via e-mail here or through Bloglovin’. But really it’s to feel it, accept it, and move past it quickly. Imagine - You’re wearing a red tee. Seriously, my favorite of yours. See more ideas about Quotes, Me quotes, Words. You are not defined by your shortcomings. writing posts like this are so helpful and important for other people (especially women) out there who need to know they’re not alone in some of these thoughts. You know that they aren’t perfect. From early on I found great satisfaction in my efforts to achieve perfectionism. Thanks for being a bright light in every one of your readers’ lives ❤️. And please, keep smiling through it all! Runway Teacher I honestly relate to every single thing you said and I think a lot of people do. How to Overcome Perfectionism I struggle with perfectionism and it keeps my from doing so many things. stay strong, you’re amazing! Thank you so much is all I can come up with for accepting me for who I am. Your email address will not be published. Chioma says. So hang in there girl, you’re killin’ it! Do you accept and embrace your flaws? New Post Update It’s so hard to keep up lol! Our imperfections and our differences are what set us apart and make us unique. But you may not know it yet. Quote on accepting your flaws and imperfections through the . The point is nobody sees us or thinks about us the way we think about ourselves. “See” you there! I am perfect in my imperfection, happy in my pain, strong in my weakness and beautiful in my own way, because God is on my side Anonymous. Appreciate yourself and appreciate those around you. Even though I write it in every post, I often forget to “keep smiling” myself. Thanks for being so open and honest about them. Thank you for sharing yours! It’s Okay to have Flaws. While we tend to rank certain sins, in the glory of God’s goodness every mark of sin—whether … "Women's bodies are supposed to store extra body fat for fertility and survival.It's a shame our culture has glorified lean bodies to such an extent," says Michelle Cady, integrative nutrition health coach of FitVista.com. Molly, let’s set one thing straight here. If you disown your flaws, you disown yourself. Major #MollysWords inspiration is waiting for you! Let me to guide you back to your beautiful self and a life that is true to your heart. It takes a lot of strength to be so open and vulnerable. I can relate to everything you’ve shared on some level. What an absolutely great, great post! Replies to my comments I, like everyone else, am constantly learning and working on becoming a better person. Aug 31, 2018 - Explore Crystal Rosiere's board "Flaws quotes" on Pinterest. 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